BTN Series: Better Man, Better Marriage

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BTN Series: Better Man, Better Marriage

Your marriage and family are a vital component living your best life.  No amount of financial success will make up a bad family life.  Yet if 50% of marriages end in divorce, this means that it’s difficult to build a lasting marriage, which is core to the family.

Behavioral scientist and relationship expert Dr. Gino Collura shares shares some of the insights that he’s uncovered on his mission to help build stronger men, families and marriages.

Each episode focuses on some key areas that men can apply to build more meaning in their lives:

  1. Becoming A Better You- How can men become better versions of themselves, so they can be a better partner and thus improve their marriages.
  2. Coming Together- How to honor your spouse? How to tap into her wants and needs? How can we acknowledge her differences?
  3. The Biggest Part- A commonality that all successful marriages and families have is that there is something larger holding the family together. A larger purpose.
    *Dr. Gino combines his Christian faith into this series and his teachings.  It is  a big part of who he is and we admire him for it.  We wanted to empower him to share how this affects his thought process and his teachings with the men he works with to build better men and better marriages.

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Length: 6:38 minutes Watch the Video

Behavioral scientist and relationship expert, Dr. Gino Collura discusses how men need to focus on improving themselves if they are going to build stronger marriages. If a man is not doing the hard work on himself, he will never be able to give his best to any meaningful relationship. Highlights: "As a man.... Who can you open your heart to? Who can you be vulnerable with?" "Comradery among other men is vital, to forging deep meaningful relationships." Men need to do something physical with other men that satisfies these 4 areas: 1. Physical 2. Mental 3. Social 4. Emotional "You have to get to a place where you can look yourself in the mirror and identify who you truly are."

Length: 11:28 minutes Watch the Video

Behavioral scientist and relationship expert, Dr. Gino Collura discusses the skills and mindsets that will help men come together with their spouses. Highlights: "Your wife like a jug of water in the desert. Sometimes its heavy and clunky to carry, but we need to treat like gold. " "How do I suspend myself? My needs and my wants to fully tap into what her needs and wants are?" "Love is not easy, love is the hardest thing." "How do we channel our pride and ego as men?" How do we honor our spouse? What are the evolutionary differences biologically, emotionally, and socially between men?

Length: 5:56 minutes Watch the Video

Behavioral scientist and relationship expert, Dr. Gino Collura shares how faith and serving a larger purpose strengthens marriages and makes them about something bigger then just our own happiness. Dr. Gino talks about specifically about his own Christian faith in this episode and how it's been the bedrock of his marriage. The lessons shared are applicable whether you are a Christian or a person of another faith. Faith and belief in something larger than yourself leads to a service based life that is essential to build a strong marriage. Key Highlights: "We live in an incredibly narcissistic society. It's the me, me, me show." "The Bible never talks about a happy life." It's not about you. It's about living a life of service." Once a year, Gino takes a week to go up into the mountains to reconnect with his faith. This helps him become a better man and thus a better husband, father, friend, and leader.